Is Modern Femininity Making Motherhood and Marriage Harder than It Needs to Be? With Monica Yates

In this bold and unfiltered episode, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Monica Yates — coach, speaker, and author of Becoming Her — to unpack the modern woman’s paradox: how feminism gave us freedom… but also left many women feeling disconnected, exhausted, and unsupported.

Together, they dive into the raw truth of motherhood, business, and relationships in an era that tells women to “have it all” — without showing the cost of doing it alone. Monica shares insights from her book Becoming Her, revealing how true feminine empowerment isn’t about competing with men, but about returning to internal safety, softness, and surrender — while still building powerfully in business.

If you’ve ever felt torn between being the high-achieving woman and the nurturer, this conversation will feel like exhaling after years of holding your breath.

Key Takeaways

- Modern feminism gave women choice — but not always peace.

- True feminine empowerment blends ambition and surrender, not one over the other.

- Motherhood and business both require strong support systems and emotional safety.

- The “independent woman” narrative often isolates us from the relationships we desire.

- Feminine leadership is about knowing when to lead and when to lean back.

- Becoming Her explores how internal safety creates the foundation for freedom.

Memorable Sound Bites

- “Support is the backbone of balancing motherhood and business.”

- “True feminine empowerment blends strength with vulnerability.”

- “Clear communication is the cornerstone of modern relationships.”

- “Internal safety unlocks the power of surrender.”

- “‘Becoming Her’ delves into the essence of feminine power.”

Connect with Monica Yates:

⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢Monica's Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWLeWRWbV3uuP7Os96UzVow