The Man

A journey to healing your trauma and limiting beliefs so you can be confident in your masculinity, leadership, and direction.

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Gentlemen, does any of this relate to you?

Do you find yourself second-guessing your relationships with women?
Are you struggling to communicate what your heart wants to share?
When a woman wants you to open it, does it feel like ‘too much’?
Do you often feel like fully expressed women can be overwhelming for you, and therefore, it can cause you to shut down?
Have you noticed patterns in your romantic relationships that you don’t understand yet and are ready to fix?
Are you feeling insecure and nervous about reading these questions because your ego doesn’t like to admit that you aren’t THE fucking MAN yet?

Do you wish that you and your guy friends were more open and helpful when it came to talking about things?
Were emotions and feelings never really talked about in your family?
Do you struggle to trust your feelings?
Does any part of you think, ‘Can this young woman really be the one to help me?’ – spoiler alert – yes, I will be.
Do you find yourself always busy with work and looking for the next best thing?
Have you noticed that when life is a bit rocky, you have created some coping mechanisms like going out, dating, drinking, exercising a lot, working more, etc.?

If you answered 'yes' to any of these questions, you are in the right place and The Man is going to rock your world.

I'M READY!

To manifest the life of your dreams

This is your chance to be

THE Man/

A man who is grounded in his masculine energy. He operates from his heart, and when in his head, it is not through the eyes of his ego or trauma. He is The Man who allows others around him to feel safe to open up. His presence is electric, and people can not get enough of him. He is conquering everything. His relationships, his job, his finances, his goals, his health, and his family. He is a man who is direct, discerning, kind, open, warm, protective, strong, bold, soft, and in his leadership. Men want to be him, and women want to be with him.

TESTIMONIALS

Working with Monica was one of the best investments that I have made. I have learned so many tools and life lessons over the past few months that I can now use for life. When I first began working with Monica, I felt really lost and had very little confidence. Since doing the work, I have really begun to feel who I am, and I am also starting to believe in myself more and more each day. I really enjoyed each call that I had with Monica, and I am very grateful to have had this opportunity.

Larry

Some of my biggest wins from working with Monica:
Figuring out who I am and what my purpose is, feeling a lot more confident in myself, starting to believe in myself a lot more, and improved relationships with my girlfriend and my family and friends. One of my biggest wins is waking up in the morning and feeling so much happier in myself and proud of how far I have come.

Larry

Monica's clearings will level up every part of how you view yourself, and that will flow inwards and outwards. You will leave the job you hate. The self-imposed limitations you live with every day will be lifted. That stress and tiredness in your body will clear, and you will begin to feel like yourself again.

Don’t start these 1:1’s IF:
- You’re happy working a job you hate and are uncomfortable with change.
- You know you have wounds you don't want to fix & love arguing with people, including your partner.
- You’re happy telling everyone about how your body used to look and feel.

Oliver

If you’re still reading and thinking, damn, this bro got PAID to write this. You’re wrong. I got something much more valuable: freedom of thought and my real self. Say goodbye to the broken version of you and be prepared for change because Monica’s 1:1’s will accelerate growth in ways you don't expect.
If you’re STILL reading this trying to trick yourself it couldn’t possibly be worth the investment. You’ve got money trauma, and yes, that gets covered, too. Remember this testimonial and write your own for the next bro who needs healing. Gatekeeping is for wounded men.

Oliver

Monica, to say I’m grateful to you would be an understatement. During the course of the program I went from being a person with outward confidence and a fake it til’ you make it attitude towards being a man and just life in general into a man with inner confidence to match and a strength combined with vulnerability that I would never have been able to achieve by myself or with anyone else.

If I could say anything to a person considering doing one of your courses it would be abso-fucking-lutley! You have helped me change myself for the better and I will remember the things you have taught me for the rest of my life and I intend to pass on my new found knowledge to all of my children when they come around.

So thank you so so much for everything you’ve given me, I appreciate it more than words can describe.

Luke

Umm the program has been fucking amazing!!!!!! Like I know I would not be where I am with out working with Monica and doing the program The Man.

My business and personal life has turned around feeling truly confident in everything I do and not being afraid of things. It’s the most incredible feeling to really believe in yourself. If someone would have asked me to invest in myself a year ago I would have laughed and told them to fuck off. But just seeing testimonies, listening to the podcast, and truly believe in the power Monica brings to the table. The true facts are what is your happens worth in the end?
Once you realize for me that this is worth any amount of money it made the choice an easy one. I'd recommended The Man to every man who struggles with being the man they want to be.

Kurtis

Kym

Initially, I was skeptical and didn’t think I needed to do this cause. However, I thought id embrace the challenge as Monica’s courses have helped my wife. Now that I have completed the course, i would highly recommend this to any other blokes out there.
My relationship is much more harmonious as a result, and I feel like we work more as a team.
The exercises Monica takes you through will open your mind and give you the power to unlock good and bad memories that you had completely forgotten you had that will help you become a better man in relationships and life.

Rob

YOU ARE FUCKING AMAZING! The fact is you completely changed my life and I know deep down I would never had been able to take my self to those places to heal those past traumas.

The timeline regressions would magical I’ve never felt something so powerful run through my body. To every man out their who wants to change there life and truly be the FUCKING man this is the program for you!

Kurtis

The work that she did with us as individuals and eventually as a couple was amazing with the result that was achieved. We are better individuals which has now allowed us to become better as a couple. We are now celebrating the good fortune that we have every day and the joys of being a couple who are truly best friends and lovers and will never look back and only forward. We can’t change the past, but we have the future to look forward to and enjoy and Monica has helped us with all of this. I am a better person as far as my work life balance and have limited stress in my life now as a result. I am no longer a workaholic, but still driven to continue to succeed, but I now have a much higher priority which is me and my health which then allows me to be a better husband, lover and father. For this Monica, I thank you and highly recommend you to anyone needing the work. Let’s be honest, we all need to do the work. If you are thinking of doing the work, stop thinking and start doing.

Kym

While 80% of those in the personal development world are women, it doesn’t mean that men don’t have their own set of trauma, insecurities, and struggles that also need to be healed

I know that you are desiring to be THE MAN.

You want to be able to feel confident, secure, and strong within yourself and for the women in your life.

I know that you want to feel like the rock. And currently, you’re feeling less than this…

If you've seen the way that I'm continuously healing women's trauma at the speed of light, buckle up because now it's your turn!

LET'S DO THIS

Over the duration of this program you will be healing parts of you that you didn’t even know hurt, uncovering the deepest pain that is holding you back from being the man that I know you so deeply want to be, and stepping into the version of you that makes you proud when you look in the mirror.

We will be diving into…

Healing your inner child wounds so that you no longer act like a boy but instead be the grounded man you desire to be. So you are not being held back by your triggers, insecurities, or racing thoughts.
Clearing your blocks around speaking what’s on your mind, insecurities in the bedroom, body, and work.
Finally, feeling like you are well and truly enough for her in the bedroom, in the boardroom, and/or as a dad.
Embodied in being THE man, not Mr. Nice guy, and why this is important.
Leading her in the bedroom in a way that is going to blow her panties off.
Healing your inner masculine so that you can be the man to get her out of her masculine and into her feminine so that she is leaning on you for support, and no longer emasculating you.

And if "nothing else" has worked – then I'm your woman. I can't count the number of people that have come to me as a last result, and ta-da! Healed.

We all have trauma, whether it's micro or macro.
Whether it's from yesterday's fight with your partner that triggered your body to relive a childhood memory you were unaware of or whether years of bullying are living out in your relationships.

The list goes on… Even if you know why you are dissociating from life, that doesn't mean it's healed.Awareness is great, but it doesn't heal you. I don't want you just to be aware – I want to enable you to heal from your trauma and for your triggers to be a thing of the past.

In The Man we will heal your body and nervous system to allow you to enjoy life and THRIVE through it.

I want you to have confidence and conviction in everything that you do. I want you to feel safe in being a man and not feel like you need to be a watered down version of yourself.

Trauma and a dysregulated body will inhibit this, so it's time for you to take action that works.

Put aside your ego and ask, who do you want to be? Does your version of The Man value himself and how he shows up in the world?

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Monica, to say I’m grateful to you would be an understatement. During the course of the program I went from being a person with outward confidence and a fake it til’ you make it attitude towards being a man and just life in general into a man with inner confidence to match and a strength combined with vulnerability that I would never have been able to achieve by myself or with anyone else. If I could say anything to a person considering doing one of your courses it would be abso-fucking-lutley! You have helped me change myself for the better and I will remember the things you have taught me for the rest of my life and I intend to pass on my new found knowledge to all of my children when they come around. So thank you so so much for everything you’ve given me, I appreciate it more than words can describe.

- Luke

YOU ARE FUCKING AMAZING! The fact is you completely changed my life and I know deep down I would never had been able to take my self to those places to heal those past traumas. The timeline regressions would magical I’ve never felt something so powerful run through my body. To every man out their who wants to change there life and truly be the FUCKING man this is the program for you!

- Kurtis

I was never fully aware of how my wife really felt deep down and for so many reasons, I think maybe if I was to look from the outside, while we were great friends and got along most of the time we weren’t truly lovers and hadn’t been for a long time and maybe never in our time together. It was heart wrenching to hear some of the things that she has felt and said to me over the years in regard to this. I have always loved my wife and she was always perfect in my eyes with minimal flaws, but we needed to reset ourselves at a personal level before we could do this as a couple. We were doing it and going about it wrong. Monica worked with both of us at a time when I honestly thought my wife was actually going to leave me and shatter my whole world. The work that she did with us as individuals and eventually as a couple was amazing with the result that was achieved. We are better individuals which has now allowed us to become better as a couple. We are now celebrating the good fortune that we have every day and the joys of being a couple who are truly best friends and lovers and will never look back and only forward. We can’t change the past, but we have the future to look forward to and enjoy and Monica has helped us with all of this. I am a better person as far as my work life balance and have limited stress in my life now as a result. I am no longer a workaholic, but still driven to continue to succeed, but I now have a much higher priority which is me and my health which then allows me to be a better husband, lover and father. For this Monica, I thank you and highly recommend you to anyone needing the work. Let’s be honest, we all need to do the work. If you are thinking of doing the work, stop thinking and start doing.

- Kym

THE MAN is for the man that wants to

Use your voice powerfully in board meetings.
Draw boundaries with people and say ‘NO’ instead of always being a ‘yes man.'
Stop self-sabotaging amazing connections and relationships because the emotions are overwhelming for you.
Understand women instead of feeling confused by them time and time again.
Finally, work on your shit so that you can stop repeating the same patterns over and over again… because it’s BORING!
Be proud of yourself every day and feel like you are enough for your romantic relationship, work, and family.
Be able to understand, connect with, and please your woman in a way most other men can’t 😉
Have direction in what you want to achieve and work towards in your life, from a place of soul rather than societal expectation.
Be a rock for your woman where she comes to receive all your safe, protective, masculine energy.
No longer feel like a prisoner in your own mind and body so much so you wondered why it took you this long to do this work.

Your new life is just a click away.

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90% of men will wait to do this work until they hit rock bottom, their relationship falls apart, they lose their job, or they have a massive health scare. Don't be that guy. Start before you hit rock bottom.

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What to look forward to:

You will no longer need to feel shame or guilt for wanting to take the lead and be in control in your relationship.
You will not longer feel a ball in your throat when you try to speak your truth, draw a boundary, or try to ask for what you want in the bedroom.
You will no longer feel an emptiness inside, but rather a sense of ‘coming home,’ peace and flow inside your body that makes life easy, productive, and like you are accomplishing everything you’ve wanted to.
You will finally understand what is going on in her brain so that you can be the best lover, dad, and partner to her. This will also be helpful for those who have working relationships with women.
FINALLY, you’ll be free of all those little things that set you off, trigger your body, and/or get you into a spiral. Your anxiety, worries, and things that keep you up at night will be long gone.

Let’s not wait until we hit rock bottom. Let’s act now, shall we? Why wait for things to get worse when you could just make them better?

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Gentlemen… think of journey as the men’s version of my signature program, Queen Alchemy.

You’ve seen the testimonials, you’ve heard the stories, and now it’s your time to be one of the screenshots that land on my website.

It’s your turn to finally be free of the shit in your head that is holding you back from being the man that you want to be.

This isn’t about talking about your feelings for 7 weeks. No no. This is about healing trauma that is held somatically. Your body is the keeper of your trauma, which is why it can feel easy to shove it down and mute it out with sports, exercise, drugs, alcohol, and dating for YEARS until you are finally faced with it and decide “NO MORE.”

I’m so happy that you’ve landed on my page because, over the past 2 years of taking on male clients, I can confidently say that I’m here to get you mind-blowing, life-changing, body-exploding results.

Society can heavily affect your motivation towards doing ‘the work.’ It’s almost considered ‘taboo’ to be masculine today. If you want to become a powerful, effective man, you must let go of our culture’s weird ideas about manhood and masculinity, learn to be comfortable in your skin, and take pride in who and what you are.

What's included

A vast library with over 8 hours of punchy, fast-acting modules and healing calls so that you can immediately shift your state into feeling like The Man

VIP gets 2x 1:1 calls with me and access to 2 of my courses in addition.

Email support M-F with questions / wins that you want to share.

Lifetime access to the portal and complimentary updates.

A list of books and podcasts to start your journey and open your mind.

TESTIMONIALS

Larry

Oliver

Luke

Kurtis

Kym

Rob

Kurtis

Kym

A brief outline of the program:

Module 1

(2 hours 25 minutes)

Understanding trauma, healing your childhood trauma, clearing mother/father wounds on a somatic level, healing negative beliefs that you have about yourself, training your body to feel safe to speak up and express yourself.

Module 2

(1 hour 44 minutes)

Healing more beliefs and perceptions that you hold towards yourself, understanding feminine/masculine energy and how to embody it, feeling your inner masculine and clearing beliefs of it not being ‘safe’ to embody, the principles of masculine embodiment, training your body to tap into feelings

Module 3

(1 hour 25 minutes)

Clear shame and trauma around shame, learning/understanding/embodying healing boundaries and how they will support your relationships and growth in your masculinity, clearing rejection wounds/trauma. You'll also learn how to create more ease with sticking to habits and how to lead like a man.

Module 4

(1 hour 20 mins)

Breathwork to release hidden and stuck trauma in the body.

Module 5

(1 hour )

Being responsive instead of reactive so that you're proud of how you show up in situations, feeling safe to lead her, and no longer having procrastination hold you back.

Module 6

(30 mins)

Learning about women, the differences that men and women have, and how to support your woman as The Man. You will learn tips and tricks to use in your communication, intimacy, and understanding of her cycle so that you can feel like you are supporting her and knowing what to expect at different phases of the month. You will also learn how to provide for her in ways other than money.