Be a Lover, Not a Mother

An Irresistible Journey of Igniting Polarity, Embracing His Leadership, and Being Ravished by His Masculinity.

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AWAKEN YOUR SENSUAL SIDE, UNLOCK YOUR FULL FEMININE POWER

IT’S TIME FOR US TO END THIS SILENT WAR BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN.

Ready to feel turned on and weak at the knees by him? He's about to plan the dates, be in control, and take the weight off your shoulders.

Answer this for me…

Do you feel like you always say, "Where are all the good men?"
Do you get angry and bitter towards your partner when he doesn't do something you've asked him, and in your head, you're like, "But I'm not surprised"?
Do you watch those Instagram reels where wives are begging their husbands, and you're like, OMG, PREACH! And as a result, a little part of you wonders if you want to get married or if it's really that great.
Do you think (and be real with me) that "men are dicks” and as a result, you find it hard to attract amazing men?
Are you exhausted from having to organize everything and initiate contact?
Do you have to plan the dates because if you don't, no one will?
Are you DONE with being mis-independent and ready to soften into your feminine?

Are you craving…

For a man to just whisk you away and let you fully surrender so you know that everything is looked after and you don’t have to lift a fucking finger?
To not feel so bitter and angry towards men (it’s SUCH an energy leak)?
To learn how to let go of social conditioning that all men are dirtbags or just want ‘one thing’?
To be an ally for men as opposed to making them feel wrong all the time?
To have a relationship (or improve your current one) where you are able to dance between the feminine and masculine and let things flow?
For your man (or future man) to run a bath without you having to ask and to take the lead physically, energetically, and mentally?
To attract in a man who is in control so you feel safe to be fully in your feminine?

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To manifest the life of your dreams

Emasculate

adjective

(OF A MAN) DEPRIVED OF HIS MALE ROLE OR IDENTITY.

“INSECURE, EMASCULATED MEN”

MADE WEAKER OR LESS EFFECTIVE.

“AN EMASCULATED ORGANIZATION THAT IS MERELY A SHADOW OF ITS FORMER SELF”

It's Time to Embrace the Magnetic Dance of Masculine and Feminine Energy and Experience the Exquisite Pleasures of polarity

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I get that it's exhausting wanting him to lead and feeling like he's just not getting it.

And I know you’re CRAVING for him to rise into his leadership, both physically, mentally, and emotionally in the relationship.

The problem is that we are becoming accustomed in society to shaming men. Thinking that putting them down and emasculating them will get us what we want. And no surprise, we are left feeling empty and helpless.

Men are also craving for you to soften your heart, trust that he has good intentions and let him lead.

He wants to support you, hold you, and love you.

So how about you let him in?

If you're sick of thinking, "Where are all the good men?!" you must keep reading.

SPOILER ALERT: They are right in front of you.

The problem is that you are emasculating them; therefore, they have given up taking the lead.

They have tried and are also sick of being emasculated by women who do not trust them to be in their feminine energy.

MEN WANT TO LEAD, and we need to RE-LEARN how to let them.

It's now our responsibility to learn how to receive from men, communicate with them, and empower them to rise again. It's a combo of learning to receive (and stop being a control freak) and supporting them through your words and actions so that they can rise again.

THIS PROGRAM IS YOUR GUIDE

I NEED THIS!

I created Be a Lover, Not a Mother to guide you and teach you how to encourage your current or future man to rise.

Relationships are complex these days—the blurred lines of what’s acceptable and what is taken the wrong way. Men are struggling. They are afraid of crossing the blurred lines, and with every woman being so different, they never know what they are walking into.

Whether you are single, dating, in a long-term relationship, or just wanting to learn how to receive from men day-to-day, this program is for you.

We will be diving into…

How do you get your man to rise into his healed masculine so that you can just relax in his arms at the end of a long day?

How do you stop thinking that every time a man does something nice for you, he’s trying to get into his pants?

How do you stop feeling so fucking exhausted all the time?

The answer — letting men do things for you and supporting them in their desire to lead and our desire to receive.

If you are finally ready to learn how to let go, trust men again, and be led by men in all capacities, then this program is for you.

If you struggle to get your boyfriend or any man to plan dates, hold open doors, and/or claim you, then it's time for some self-reflection. Because the reality is that most women are emasculating men and not even realizing it.

In this program, you will finally feel empowered around letting men lead, and you will feel so fucking turned on in letting go. You will drop your need to be a control freak and learn how to support your man (or future man) in rising.

By being in this program, you are part of a moment where we no longer engage in the manhunt and instead let the divine masculine rise again.

BECAUSE MASCULINE MEN DO MAKE SOCIETY SAFER. THEY ALLOW OUR FEMININE TO FEEL SAFE TO BE FREE, LET GO AND BE IN OUR CREATIVE FLOW. THE MASCULINE TRULY DOES SUPPORT OUR FEMININE. WITHOUT HIM, SHE CANNOT FLOURISH.

If you want to ensure that the men in your life feel appreciated, loved, and 'enough' as men... then you need to join this program. It's not only going to help your lover, but it's also going to improve your relationship with your brother, son, co-workers, friends, and your postman.

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TESTIMONIALS

I don’t think my husband and I would be together today if it weren’t for this course. I never realized how I was ruining our relationship and pushing him away from me with my words and actions. Learning about the polarity between men and women and how to ACTUALLY support my husband has made our relationship better than ever. There is no way we would have gotten through the hardships without me being able to surrender. Not to mention, I am way more relaxed letting him lead and he has more confidence in himself. Not only has this affected our relationship positively, but it has also affected both of our well being individually with our personal lives and careers. I’ve been able to apply these tools to my platonic relationships with men too. Working in a male dominated field, I have been described as “bossy” in the past. Since this course my husband says I am “chill but also can’t be messed with. That’s powerful”. Colleagues have noted my calm and confident demeanour working with men (who are frankly quite egotistical), none of which would be the case if it weren’t for this course. It has saved my relationship and my sanity with my career!

- EMMA

I learnt so much about myself – I never thought before about how easily I was emasculating men, but now I can see both HOW and WHY. This programme has made me realise it is safe to be at ease, to let others help me and that I don’t need to be doing everything in life! It’s made me feel less stressed and that has been obvious to people in my life.

- EMMA

When I first started BLNM I was relating to men from a masculine shell. Throughout BLNM I learned how to lean back, tune into my heart and womb, and trust a man to lead and be in my feminine enough to LET him lead. I learned how to nourish my own feminine when I felt “needy” and how to ask for things in a way that was sexy and inviting rather than demanding and harsh. Most of all, I learned how to build trust in my own heart and feminine expression so that men want to lead me and be vulnerable with me. Thank you so much Monica for your knowledge. I’m so grateful I took BLNM and highly recommend it to any women who wants to sink more deeply into her feminine and create connection with all the men in her life.

- Eliza

This was so Wonderful! I loved the weekly format over four weeks and how much Monica gives to her community (the vibes were divine!). I learnt how insidiously societal emasculation can niggle its way into our minds and I feel more confident in nurturing myself and communicating to men and my boyfriend overall.

- Felicity

This was an amazing program that enlightened me to be more embodied in my feminine to help support him in his masculine. Every call there were SO many juicy tidbits that lead to me being able to understand and support my man better. This program is an amazing bridge that I will be drawing on everyday for the rest of my life- much like all of Monica’s other programs. I’ve done Queen Alchemy earlier this year, so if you are concerned about overlapping content, it is a completely different course that stands on its own; while still holding the core roots that are in all of Monica’s programs. I highly recommend taking this program! No matter what stage your relationship is at, everyone can benefit from the content. It has significantly improved my understanding of men, thus, my relationship. Thank you so much Monica!

- Vanessa

This program is a must for every single woman to support her inner feminine and all the masculine around her. Becoming aware and building that polarity is truly life changing. It doesn’t happen over night but I hear Monicas voice and wisdom in moments and realize Im breaking patterns. Soon it will be my norm. I am beyond grateful for this offering because there is absolutely nothing like it.

- Shaina

Monica is a vibe and a half and I have loved loved LOVED learning from her over the duration of this course! Before signing up to BLNM, a lot of the topics covered in this course triggered me but I am so grateful for Monica being an advocate for men in this course as I have a newfound deep appreciation for the masculine and for all the men in my life. I have a better understanding of the polarity of the masculine and feminine roles in a relationship and also an insight into some of the major ways men's brains function soooo differently to women's. This course is simply chicken nuggets on chicken nuggets and each call I found myself breaking through limiting belief after limiting belief surrounding men. I can't wait to build and continue to implement these learnings in my actions and behaviors around the current men in my life (friends and family) but also so I can support, please, and inspire my future lover! Thank you so so much Monica!

- RENEE

I thought I had already healed a lot of my inner beliefs and inner work about men, but Monica had made me recognize that I still had a few subconscious fears and beliefs that were damaging to my relationships with men (My partner and all the males in my life). Thank you so much Monica - I never thought I could learn how to be in receivership and fall into my feminine energy. Had hesitation when enrolling in the program but it is definitely worth it!

- KRISTINE

Learning how to stop emasculating men will not only let your man rise, but it will also allow your feminine to flourish.

Gentlemen… think of this 7-week journey as the men’s version of Queen Alchemy.

Let’s support men in feeling empowered in being open and being themselves. The flow-on effect of this program will be fucking amazing. You will be able to support your son (or future son) in being an amazing man, as well as supporting all the men in your life.

This is a movement. Let’s release our anger towards men and instead start loving them.

Let’s see the goodness in their hearts and return the favor.

Let’s realize that the masculine is truly the most nourishing energy to the feminine.

5 reprogramming tracks to train your mind and body to be THE MAN.

Imagine what it would be like to say thanks to a man for holding open the door and feeling looked after in that moment (and not creating a story in your head about ‘oh, he just wants to get into my pants’).

Imagine feeling good about going to a man when you need help instead of trying to do everything yourself.

Imagine walking in the door after a long day and seeing that your man has cooked you dinner and tidied the house (and don’t think, “Oh, that would never happen”).

Imagine being a rock for your man when he’s having a rough day and knowing he’s not internalizing his mental health struggles.

Imagine just being able to say ‘thanks’ and receiving a beautiful date night when he pays the bill.

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WHAT'S INCLUDED

Over 8 hours of content
A Telegram group to share your wins, questions, etc
Access to any new modules that are added to the BLNM program.

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Content Included

Module 1

Connecting with your womb and being grounded in your feminine heart
Understanding Feminine and Masculine
What is emasculation?
The sneaky way in which we emasculate
The female version of emasculation
Why we do it and how it has been ingrained into us

Module 2

Recognizing ways in which you emasculate men.
The attractiveness of the feminine, for the masculine, and embracing this!
How to stop emasculating
Getting into receivership
Opening your heart

Module 3

How to swap emasculating comments into empowering ones
What men want you to know
Is there ever a time when emasculation is appropriate?
Trusting him when he needs to go into his man cave

Module 4

How to communicate with your lover when you want something
How to communicate with your man (or man friend) when they are not stepping up and you need/want them to
How to play with polarity and get comfortable surrendering to his leadership
Being a lover and not a mother

Module 5

A juicy chat with 4 incredible men - a true insight into men’s brains, their outlook, opinions and feelings
Amazing Q&A with a male’s perspective

Module 6

The differences between men and women
How we date and communicate
Our primal and soul needs
A juicy Q+A

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