How To Have Him Lead You

Masterclass

You're allowed to want more than 'partnership.' You're allowed to crave a man who leads, pursues, and ravishes you daily. Here's how.

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Imagine a Relationship Where:

He can't keep his hands off you.

You’re not just “loved.” You’re wanted and craved. You feel his desire, his pursuit, and his craving for you because you’re no longer blocking it with control and mothering energy, so he literally cannot keep his hands off you.

You exhale and melt.

You’re not in your head thinking 10 steps ahead. You're coming home after the workday and actually able to relax. Your body is letting go of energetic weight from feeling like you have to hold everything and manage everything yourself.

He handles it all.

He's booking the flights, picking the restaurant, and telling you, "Pack for Italy, we leave the house at 12pm tomorrow." He's leading the kids without you having to ask.

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What if you could feel claimed, ravished, and led everyday without needing to be passive? You can be a highly successful woman and soften without becoming passive.

You don't want 50/50. You want to be HIS. You want to walk through the airport knowing that he's handled the details and is locked in with a plan B and C so you're not the one in crisis management. You want that "throw you against the wall because I can't not have you energy."

A taste of the medicine...

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THE DETAILS

You say you want to be led… the reason why he isn't leading you isn't because he's incapable, it's because your body doesn't feel safe to let go.

Until you feel safe to surrender, no man, no matter how masculine, can lead you the way you desire.

In the Masterclass, I’m breaking down:

How to communicate what you need without emasculating him (this alone will change your entire dynamic)
The 4 hidden reasons why he’s not leading you (and how to shift them without a single conversation)
The truth about polarity and why “being in control” blocks your deepest feminine desires
The Lover vs The Mother—and how to re-polarize your relationship with one energetic shift
My proven 3-step framework to help you relax into your feminine and invite his leadership without forcing him, begging him, or getting frustrated
Private Podcast Version to be able to listen to the replay on-the-go

By the end of this experience, you'll know:

Exactly why he's not leading, and your part in it.
How to create the energetic space for him to rise.
What it feels like to finally exhale and trust he has got you.

Ready?

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After you go through it, you’ll be able to finally figure out why he’s not leading, and your part to play in it. It even includes sexy pictures and vibey slides to really get you going ;)

Hi, I'm Monica Yates.

An industry-leading trauma healer and master embodiment coach, New York Times and USA Today bestselling author, speaker, and founder & CEO of Monica Yates Health.

I work with thought leaders, executives, CEOs, founders, and public figures to deepen intimacy and polarity in relationships, and feel safe embodying their feminine and/or masculine energy, heal their nervous system, and make more money—so they can lead, love, and live with joy and inner peace.

For the last nine years, through my proprietary trauma-healing methodology, I have helped both men and women somatically release stored trauma and conditioning, allowing them to fully embody who they were born to be and experience sustainable expansion across all areas of life—business, relationships, family, health, and fertility.

I have built a multi-million dollar business that has changed the lives of thousands, offering actionable, real advice without the 'fluff.' I am the creator of the MYH Trauma Healing Method, H.E.R Framework, L.O.V.E.R Method, and as evident by an extensive library of testimonials, my unique, authentic approach to this has made me the go-to person when someone has "tried everything."

My husband, Hal, our son, and I currently reside in Atlanta.

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PARIS AND ITALY OBSESSED, PILATES LOVER, mum to 4 dogs & a little man, AND PASSIONATE AS HELL ABOUT MY WORK

Hi, I'm Monica. Your coach, healer, teacher, and guide.

I’m Monica Yates—a trauma healer, embodiment coach, and the creator of the MYH Method™. Over the last 8 years, I’ve helped thousands of women step out of their masculine armor, heal their trauma, and finally feel safe surrendering into their feminine.

My work combines deep somatic healing, subconscious reprogramming, feminine energetics, and nervous system recalibration to create true, lasting transformation—not just another surface-level mindset shift.

I’ve built a global business helping high-achieving women feel safe being soft, and I’m known for helping clients re-polarize their relationships fast… without manipulation, suppression, or abandoning their power.

My podcast Feminine as Fck* has reached millions of listeners, and my new book Becoming HER is already changing the way women relate to their feminine power—and the masculine men they crave. This isn’t fluff. This is the real work. And when you do it? Everything in your life changes.

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The process that I implemented for the first time this year (2022) on Jan 1, without a doubt, was what led me to meeting the love of my life on a chairlift 22 days later. I don't doubt that for a second.

- Monica Yates

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