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This is me.
I'M MONICA—YOUR HEALER, GUIDE, COACH AND TEACHER
I’m known for helping women drop the masculine armor, clear what’s held them back for years, and finally feel safe in their body, their feminine, and their life.
My work blends trauma healing, nervous system regulation, subconscious reprogramming, womb energetics, and somatic embodiment—what I call the "Monica Modalities," to create deep, lasting change at the root and at the speed of light.
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Hear what Casey has to say...
If you have tried everything else and it's not working, you need to book a 1:1. That healing needs to be a multi-faceted approach, and you need a coach/mentor who's experienced and has been doing it for a long time, and that's Monica.
Thank you for holding the space for me to tell you my dark secrets. It was such a huge step (in my mind) for me, but I'm now actually accepting it and learning to love every part of who I am - because, man, I am so fucking awesome - and I feel I can say that because you created the space to give my confidence back and find the person that was hiding away.
Monica - your image speaks for itself, you embody everything you teach, authenticity matters to me and people of their word, and you are that! That's what I would tell people, that I respect you for those qualities, and that's why I booked.
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HERE'S HOW IT WORKS
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- // You'll be guided on how to book your two sessions
- // fill out the intake form so I can prepare for the session
- // You experience life changing healing!
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What Women Are Saying
I tried so many 'traditional' ways of healing my trauma: psychologists, exercise, relying on friends and family, and even disassociating and numbing out from what had hurt me.
I thought I had tried everything possible to heal, and none of it worked - I was terrified that investing in working with Monica would not work for me either.
Since completing Queen Alchemy, I only regret that I didn't learn of the hits program sooner. I spent years of my life carrying trauma that negatively impacted every single element of my life. I wish I had done this course sooner.
I can't articulate the profound, incredible way this program set me free and changed my life. I would have paid double for the course if it had only given me half the results I received - and the results keep getting better the more I integrate and embody what I learned in the program.
Where to begin..Monica added so many critical tools to my toolkit. The most profound of all of these was the culmination of so many different modalities that helped me to understand and actually feel the difference once I learned that I have my own back, and regardless of my relationship status, I am my own source of safety. The empowerment, confidence, and contentment that came from fully realizing this have majorly shifted my whole experience. Now, I am free.
Taylor
Honestly, Monica, I am super grateful that I came across your IG account and that it led me to work with you. The information you shared resonated with me from the very beginning because it was exactly what I was looking for. I had no idea how to be in my feminine, and there you were with your Feminine as F*ck podcast.
I didn't know what to expect from QA, but I relaxed straight after the first call. You absolutely don't waste anybody's time. You always came prepared for the calls, so there were no silent/blank periods, and everything was running smoothly.
Katerina
Nervous system expansion is one of Monica’s tools, which I use daily—sometimes multiple times a day. It has helped me reduce my avoidant tendencies so much. I can now observe more quickly when something feels ‘scary’ or ‘unsafe,’ and rather than immediately avoid it, I can do the NSE and allow myself to expand my ability to hold it and move with it. It’s been game-changing. It’s felt empowering to take ownership of my own sensuality. I would always shy away from it before, and now, even my husband has noticed and commented on it. It feels empowering to receive help and support and to be looked after. Such subtle shifts have made the biggest differences.
Monica, is a true embodiment of everything she teaches. I have now invested in many of her programmes. They have served me at the time and are continuing to serve me as I go through different seasons of life.
I have healed so much emotional trauma around my own femininity and continue to heal newer layers.
You truly are never a number with Monica. Her love for her clients can be felt deeply and it is evident in the way she shows up, holds space for everyone’s individual cases as well as in the 1:1s. Investing in QA has been one of the best investments for myself and when you work with Monica, from start-to-finish, you are looked after by her and her team.
Ana
My confidence has never been better - I used to cringe every time I saw myself naked, and now it's become such a regular occurrence I have to laugh at myself at ever judging my body.
I lost almost 20 lbs in the past few months. I've found it so much easier to make sustainable lifestyle shifts in all areas of my life. But I was also in a deeply unregulated, cortisol-soaked existence, so it is no surprise my body finally feels safe now to release the weight.
I've invested even more into myself. Getting the results I did from this program made it clear that it's time to prioritize doing the things I've always said I wanted to do and invest in whatever is going to make it happen.
I've also just had SO much more fun in my life since this program! I've traveled more, gone out more, danced more, listened to music again, started learning French again, and taken up piano again; the list is truly endless.
From receiving completely free luxury international trips (hello feminine receivership) to losing over 20lbs (and counting), I can't even keep track of all the ways my life has improved. Best of all, I feel so much more peace, ease, and flow in my life – completely priceless.
If you're considering this program - DO IT. It goes so far beyond what I ever expected: so much valuable content and an incredible community you join right from the start.
I just absolutely enjoyed this program. I felt so held and secure every step of the way! And it was SO well managed. I was never uncertain about what to do next or where to find something!
We all have fears before investing in ourselves. What (if anything) was the fear before you started working on yourself, and looking back what would you have told yourself if you knew these were the results you would get?
I was afraid of what would come up in the healing process - of what would get unearthed or discovered.
I would have told myself that those things were never covered up in the first place...I was wearing my unhealed wounds on my body in excess weight, in my relationships with my avoidant attachment, in my day-to-day life, and how I was showing up. So you might as well look at them head-on because they're out there whether you like it or not. And once you face them, those wounds are smaller and so much less scary than you've built them up to be!
Makenna
I loved every minute of being held by Monica because that is what it felt like. I felt so safe and guided. I could truly just BE while also doing real emotional, challenging work on myself. I am forever grateful to have been in this with Monica. The absolute best investment I've ever done for myself. I've set clear boundaries at work - I used to have a boss who punished me for everything I did, developing a fear in me for speaking up on certain things that I brought into my current job. I feel that after QA, I've found my voice and confidence (I also realized I'd been traumatized and affected by my former boss and had been carrying that for 4 years)!
My fear of investing in QA was that I was over-analyzing myself and trying to find what was wrong with me (linked to being so obsessed with personal development) that I was just trying to find yet another program or coach that wouldn't really solve it for me.
Knowing what I know now, I would have gone back in time, not wasted any time or money on mindset coaches or books, etc., and gone straight to somatic healing. Of course, there is a reason I finally landed on this program, so I never regret the other stuff, really, but that's what I would have recommended myself. I learned a lot from Monica: new healthy perspectives on things I already know and agree on, but also new learnings like cervical de-armoring, anger release technique, nervous system expansion, etc.
I loved every minute of QA. I was both happy and sad when it came to an end. Here’s a couple of wins from me: I’ve always danced on a daily basis, but lap dancing was a new level for me, and it's been so fun! Listening to a reprogramming track every morning before I get up has been such a peaceful addition to my mornings. I look forward to seeing results after I finish 90 days and then starting the next one.
Charlene
If you're hesitating whether Queen Alchemy is right for you, do it! If Monica's podcast resonates with you, working with her in this course will be life-changing. The learnings and growth I experienced were invaluable, impacting me in ways I hadn't even considered before starting the course. I felt so safe throughout, with a strong sense of community and a supportive network of wonderful women. After 19 months of no period, I got my period back within 3 months of working with Monica. This course gave me so many new perspectives on love, sex, money, and men, and I am SO GRATEFUL! I 100000% recommend.
Eva
It’s been a couple of years since I completed QA and I still reflect on how it was the best investment I’ve made for myself to date. It changed my life so much and honestly, it was really easy. All I had to do was watch the content and attend the live calls and my biggest triggers were gone. I held a lot of resentment towards my parents and my relationship with them was a bit worn since I was constantly disappointed with them. We worked on childhood wounding and my relationship with my parents is better than ever. And this was only one call!! That alone was so worth the investment. Not to mention my ability to stay calm in stressful situations in which I would’ve reacted before, especially with people. I still go back and redo the live calls or listen to the meditations when new situations come up that I need a top off for. I can’t imagine my life without this course, it has truly completely changed my life for the better.
Emma
Every single facet of my life is different since QA. My relationship with my husband is repolarised and is stronger than ever. I am so much more self-assured at work, in myself, and in the decisions I make. I have so much more clarity about how outward situations affect me and also have so many tools available to manage myself when these things come up again. I also have never had as much body confidence in my life as I do now. My connection to my innate feminine has only strengthened and it's been an amazing journey to be on.
Also since completing QA, I got a promotion, bought a house, am now pregnant, and can honestly say my relationship with my husband is the best it has been, knowing full well I can completely melt into his masculinity.
Natalie
I definitely show up in life with more confidence. My family, friends, coworkers, and clients have noticed, and the external validation makes it stronger.
My period is slowly coming closer to 28 days; it started out as 38 days, then down to 35, and now 32, so I feel like my hormones are balancing out. I’m learning to soften and surrender during sex, which has definitely increased my pleasure. Getting bent over in the kitchen while cooking dinner is a whole new vibe. 🔥
Shannon
This work you do has absolutely changed my life over the last 8 months. I’ve been obsessed with self-development all my life, but nothing quite resonated like your perspective and teachings. It was like all of my inner thoughts were being validated and confirmed. I was no longer alone, and all of a sudden, a massive community of wonderful women appeared behind you. I came across your podcast on a whim, and it was a blessing from the universe, no question. You often say that people are only ready to hear what they are ready to hear. I am so grateful my ears and soul were ready. I will absolutely write a testimonial once QA 11 is over but I wanted to say this to you personally. You are magnetic and wonderful and warm, and you called me out on a lot of shit I didn’t want to hear. Even through a screen and miles away, you’ve felt like a best friend and leader and someone I want to be. So thank you from the bottom of my heart. I know I owe my current state all to you.
The world looks a little more golden and more endless than I ever thought.
Oh and you’ve hooked me for life so don’t expect this is the last of me you’ll be seeing. If you ever expand into a place where you teach other women how to do what you do or you start a school or something, PLEASE do let me know. There is such a need for this type of work not only individuals but from a corporate perspective. A LOT of businesses would benefit from this type of work. I find myself so drawn to you and your work and not just for myself. I’d love to get into this field of teaching others one day. Keep me in mind if you ever need an extra body on your team, I would give you my all!!
PS - I literally can’t fall asleep without listening to a reprogramming track.
Ava
I wrote this in my journal this morning that I would love other ladies to know to join this program: Up until this point in my life, I have had such deeply rooted religious and sexual trauma in my life that I always thought it would be impossible to move on from and live without numbing myself all the time. I did years of cognitive behavioral therapy and that played a role in my healing at that time because it gave me the ability to speak after trauma. I tried another modality of therapy that taught me about brain chemistry and how to stop assigning meaning to different traumas in my life and remove that emotional charge. But it wasn't until I found Queen Alchemy that I TRULY learned how to CLEAR that trauma from my BODY. Looking back on my healing journey, I don't think I would have truly healed without this important step of somatic healing and you can only get that through Monica's guidance during Queen Alchemy.
She has this incredible gift of pushing you to feel whats in your body but she doesn't stop there. She helps you move that energy and clear it from your body. This isn't just some fluffy feeling program, but one that holds you accountable for your healing and gives you a safe place to move through it. By the end of this program I went from being numb, to feeling everything. But I can now feel things, have a meltdown if necessary, and then pick myself off the floor and move on with my day with that emotional release. I wish this kind of internal peace on every woman in this world and I will forever be grateful for Monica.
Lauren S
Monica, this is my second time working with you and I just have to say from the bottom of my heart, thank you thank you thank you for all of the time and energy and effort you put into each and every one of your programs. There truly is something to gain from each of them, and QA does not disappoint. It hits hard and fast with the trauma healing in the beginning, so that you can truly enjoy the sensual and sexual side in the later half, and every minute you can tell you’ve put your heart and soul into it, whether or not it’s a pre-recorded module or on the live calls. I know there is so much impact QA will have on me for the rest of my life, and I can’t wait to see what unfolds in the future. My life has completely changed since the NYC immersion and will continue to change after doing QA. I’m truly so thankful for the pleasure of getting to work with you!! I am a new woman because of you, and she is radiant and sexy and a divine goddess who is open and available to receiving all the abundance from the Universe.
Cindy
Omg please jump in! I had no idea what to expect from QA, but I can safely say I got 10,000X what I paid for! Work with Monica! Just do it, seriously she changed my life, and the knowledge she has is unlike anyone else! I was super nervous to do Queen Alchemy and didn't know what to expect, but when I look back on the girl who felt unworthy and unsafe at the beginning and the woman I am now I know QA has been 10,000X worth the price and commitment. I'm so grateful to Monica and the ladies I did the program with me, and so incredibly proud of myself for taking the plunge! Thank you, thank you, thank you, Monica.
Lauren
I really enjoyed QA and will continue to embody the content. I thought that Monica was fantastic and I really appreciated that she was available for questions and comments at any time throughout the 7 weeks; not just during the calls. She is accessible, knowledgeable, great at connecting with everyone and honestly really walks her talk! I am very glad that I decided to do Queen Alchemy and although I am still working on things, and probably always will be as I move through life, I feel a lot clearer within myself now. Thank you, Monica!!
Stephanie
This program has been life-changing. I feel more like my authentic self than I ever had before. Trauma healing is powerful. I had no idea I was holding onto so much and how much it affected my day-to-day life.
Keep being you Monica. This work is essential and by far the best investment I’ve ever made in myself. I wish every woman in the world would sign up for QA!
Rikki
As someone with a very big history of body image/ eating disorders - the reconstruction of the body as being the physical, mental, and soul has had a fundamental impact on me. Having this perception change has been so life-changing; I genuinely have never felt freer or more comfortable in my physical self.
QA really showed me how capable I am. Right at the end of the program, I genuinely felt like a different human being in so many ways. Since QA, obviously, life kick backs in, but the version of myself I am now is one who can actually manage what goes on in my external world and not let it impact me and my world.
Natalie
Monica really puts her heart and soul into this program. I didn’t expect anything less, but I don’t think people really realize that until you participate in QA. Our group asked her a million questions in the telegram group and she always took the time to reply to everyone’s question which I really appreciated. We would also have calls run late and she never cut us off or cut anything short even though I’m sure she had a million other things to do. You can tell how much she cares about everyone’s results, and I can’t recommend working with her enough! The best thing that has come out of QA for me is a better understanding of men, and how to communicate with them. It’s really helped my relationship. Thank you Monica!
Gabby
Monica, your work is timeless. You are well-versed and know what you're talking about. It's been amazing to work with you since 2019 and I know it's not over because you stay up to date with things and inspire me so much. You're the only coach I spent so much on but I deserved it and you deserve it because working with you is like a healthy, sustainable relationship and not a one-night stand. I love, appreciate, respect and admire you. Thank you for helping me heal and become a high-value woman. I don't get triggered, I don't self-sabotage and I catch when I am not in alignment. You are the best and only coach anyone could ever fucking need.
Shaina
I am happy with the decision that I made to begin investing in myself through Monica. Since the investment, I have gained momentum in improving myself and my life. I have felt more positive emotions within the last several months and continue to feel better and better. Now I believe that I am worth investing in and that my money will come back to me.
Abbie
My biggest learning experience was blocking off time in my schedule for personal growth. In this course, it was showing up for the calls and making sure I scheduled time to make them up if I couldn't do them in real-time. I've never taken control of my schedule in a way that serves me before. It was scary at first; I didn't think I had enough time to do Queen Alchemy, but now I see the time investment in myself is beyond worth it. The 8 weeks of practice in this course helped me take my first steps towards putting my well-being first - in a supported space. Now I have no problem booking massages, taking mental health days, & planning restful evenings because I know that there IS ENOUGH TIME to love myself, and it improves my overall vibe and outlook on life.
Morgan
I can’t thank you enough Monica for what you do. I knew that QA would change my life in some ways, but the changes are massive. I honestly don’t know if my marriage would have survived if I didn’t do QA. I’ve reclaimed my feminine and brought the wild woman in me to the surface, living a delicious and magical life just as I knew I always deserved. I’ve learnt so much about myself and my relationships. You’re incredible at what you do. You have so much passion, warmth and care for your clients. It’s shines through in every single call and online video. I felt so safe, loved and honoured in your hands. THANK YOU!
Amy
Monica, thank you so much. I loved Queen Alchemy and I love who I have become. It’s crazy to think in just 7 weeks what a massive difference it can make but when you really put in the work and show up for you, anything is possible. I’m grateful for all I’ve learnt and where I’m going. Ladies, if any of you are on the edge of your seat, wondering if you should take the leap, do it. I can’t recommend this course & having Monica as a coach enough. I was never able to speak my truth, I was riddled with shame around sex and cleared so much shit even with a beautiful childhood and upbringing. If you have the opportunity to do this course, do yourselves a favour and do it. You will not regret it. You’ll only regret not taking the leap.
How has my life changed since working with Monica?
1) Confidence. I mostly notice it at work
2) Better communication with my husband and understanding his man brain more
3) Boundaries at work and in friendships
4) And the big one! After 8+ years of debating whether or not to have a baby, I’ve finally gotten out of my own way, and this summer, we’re going to go for it. Huge!
Tamra
This is the testimonial I wish someone had written for me before I finally made the leap. Monica is no ordinary coach. She is well beyond her years and what you see on IG or podcasts etc. is THE TIP of the iceberg. She is such a wealth of information bred with unwavering intuition that goes further than any other health professional I’ve encountered – and in such a short space of time. If you’re thinking about the investment – don’t. It will be quickly forgotten as soon as you get access to the program. I made 10 x the value back just in doing the pre-work – that is before the course even started. Not to mention you have a gazillion tools for life and a gorgeous community of women who have gone through the growth journey with you. I am so thankful to myself for investing in Queen Alchemy. The new energy, the money, the blessings that are coming into my life are real and there’s still so much more to come. I can’t explain how Monica does what she does – it’s truly something magical. She is not one to be underestimated. My deepest and heartfelt gratitude goes out to Monica and the team. She is transforming a generation of women and I dare say it won’t be too long before this intimate access to her becomes limited.
Olivia
It’s hard for me to express with words the amount of gratitude I feel for Monica and the other women in QA. This program has been exactly what I needed in order for me to step into my feminine. I feel more radiant, confident and relaxed than ever. I trust myself and I know that I can achieve everything my mind can dream. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me release many years of trauma that was stored in my body. It was tough, but so needed, and I can honestly say I have never felt better being me after QA. Thank you for having me in QA, it has been an absolute pleasure. This is definitely not the last time I will be working with Monica.
Anne
Monica I’ve followed you since February 2019 and you have come such a long way. You’re a high value woman I aspire to be like. Working with you and learning the ropes to harness that feminine core within me has given me full trust of myself. I have every course and will forever support your work. You’re a timeless mystic who integrates the metaphysical and psychological aspects of all things sex, love, men, brain, etc and a wealth of knowledge. I can’t thank you enough for the changes QA has made in my life. Deeply and sincerely love, appreciate and respect you.
Shaina
Recently I was getting really anxious and feeling overwhelmed at work. I started playing the reprogramming tracks each morning before work and it left me feeling centered, grounded and calm. I had more confidence and more ability to let shit go. It’s been incredible! I can not thank you enough for this program!! I was talking to a friend the other day whom I haven’t talked to in a while. She was with me during a really dark time so she has seen my worst and most desperate. She was blown away by the difference in my voice, in my confidence. She said I sounded truly joyful and incredible. She started following your IG and podcasts. I highly recommended QA for her!!!
Thank you for the light you pour into this world and truly saving me from myself!
Jacque
I want to start by saying THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU to Monica for creating a safe space and container for me and our round of QA girl’s to be vulnerable and to be supported! Knowing that Monica has my back and that she supports me has allowed me to take big risks to clear my trauma and to take a few more steps into the dark than I would normally feel comfortable with. QA is not easy and at times I felt emotionally exhausted, but it is soooo worth it for the LASTING RESULTS! Monica is no joke! I love Monica’s passion for her clients. It is obvious that her students are not just a number to her and that she has really taken the time to think about what is best for each person. If you are reading this and are on the fence about working with Monica, specifically whether to join QA or not- this is your sign that you need to do this for you!!!
Kat
I feel more confident in asking the world for my desires. I have also started to embrace my emotions more and am comfortable crying in front of my friends. Since starting the program only months ago, I now have a strong circle of sisterhood, and 3 of my friends have started their periods for the first time in years when we've been hanging out! I haven't had my period yet, but I have been embracing my cramps and tuning into my womb through guided meditations. I am embracing my feminine body in a loving way, listening to her rather than suppressing her desires.
Morgan
In just a few short weeks of working with Monica, I have experienced exponential internal growth. The homework Monica assigned during each week was crucial in pushing me forward and getting me to a place where I feel confident in myself. Monica is reliable, professional, very inquisitive, and a great listener! , I found myself a lot more grounded in my values and confident about pursuing my professional and personal goals. Monica is a true example of an empowered woman, helping to empower other women.
Heather
Monica is honestly amazing. QA has changed my life. I think differently, I have self respect and feel as though my third eye is opening. I also went from being the biggest people pleaser to setting boundaries with EVERY.ONE. As a woman who lives with PCOS I also never imagine that the work we did on our wombs and telling our bodies that ‘they are safe’ would have the outcome of a baby on board but here we are!!! I cant recommend Monica enough and I so look forward to working with her again very soon xx
Rachel
Queen Alchemy is amazing, everything you could dream of and more. From the group calls, 1:1 with Monica, facebook group and extra videos, Monica has you covered to unleash your best self. Having such a supportive group along for the ride, makes it that much sweeter. Queen Alchemy is worth every dollar, I am truly grateful.
Cotch
As a newborn mumma it gave me the opportunity to really tap in and get to know this new version of myself that I was struggling to know who she was. Monica helped me to see where I needed to make changes in my life through tapping into my own inner knowing and really gave me the kick up the bum that I needed. I have walked away from this Mastermind more confident and a much happier person.
Sammy
A TASTE OF WHAT'S POSSIBLE
I'M PREGNANT!!!! I'm also feeling less codependent, and my husband is responding really positively. I get dressed faster and finally feel good in whatever I wear. Other wins:
1. I am no longer putting everything into my job. I have balance now.
2. I am questioning my actions rather than just doing whatever I want, and it is making me feel more organized and in control
3. I am releasing things that aren't serving me. I am also not replacing old things with new ones as badly. I am working on valuing everything that I keep in my life and releasing things that aren't important anymore.
I am so grateful for you and all of the changes that you have helped me to make in my life!!
These changes are leading to deeper insights about myself and the capacity to keep making more changes. I am confident that I am becoming the person that I want to be and the tools you have given me are so powerful!!
I was really worried about the time investment. I didn't realize that I was still attached to unhealthy attitudes, anger, fear, resentment, and need for acceptance. If I could go back and talk to the pre-QA version of myself, I would tell her that she needs a break and it is totally worth it to take some time to rest and upgrade to a better version of herself. I would also tell her that she is not an expert and is missing a lot of really dysfunctional parts of herself and that she needs someone else to help her heal.
I think that when your life is pretty good, you assume that there is nothing that really has to change, but there is always room for improvement, and the results from QA have been significant.
Courtney
I held a lot of guilt around my father's illness and death, and with Monica's modalities, I could let go of this guilt. Realizing that it was just an old story and that the truth was that I'd brought a lot of happiness and love to my dad's life was life-changing.
I grew up with a scarcity mindset. I felt nervous and that I wasn't deserving enough to spend that amount of money on myself. I think my ego was also reluctant to admit that I had work to do and was hesitant to explore what would come up during QA. However, I can now say that the knowledge I have acquired and the inner sense of peace I now have is absolutely priceless. My life has infinitely changed for the better since doing QA.
Sarah
The person I was before QA was in constant self-doubt, had no trust in myself, was completely in my masculine, and really gripping on too tightly.QA showed me how letting go, being in my feminine, in my body, rather than in my head, could give me the life I always wanted.I released so much trauma and learned so many incredible modalities that I continue to reuse and come back to. Queen Alchemy is by far the best investment I have made in myself.
Natalie
I love my period now and can't wait to remove my IUD to feel even more in tune with my body. I've started to notice little "feelings" throughout my body. like, I'll notice a feeling in my throat when I feel like I can't express myself. I actually notice my anxiety MORE and in my chest, but I feel like I have the tools to then clear that anxiety and move back into a neutral and grounded feeling. I actually cry now but then I pull myself off the floor and move on. I'm just so fucking grateful that I feel the energy flow in and out of my body instead of feeling stuck and numb.
Lauren S
One misconception I had about Queen Alchemy was that I was going to come out of the program this completely different new, and an improved, fiery woman. What actually happened, though, was that I just came back to myself. I've reconnected with my true desires and unlocked a new passion and love for life. I have a newfound excitement for life and feel strong and confident in the decisions I'm making to better myself and improve my overall quality of life. I don't get jealous when people have things that I don't; I get excited knowing that I either already have everything I could ever want or trust that I'm being divinely guided toward it. I don't get anxious when thinking about whether or not I'll have my dream home; I can already feel the excitement and know how it'll feel to step into it for the first time. I no longer feel like I need to be a certain way; I only need to be myself and embody my true essence. To live in a constant state of inner peace is so powerful and beyond liberating.
Shannon
I used to get quite heavy periods and bad period pain that would radiate to my back. Sometimes I would be doubled over at my work desk with stabbing pain, mainly on my right-hand side. However, since finishing QA, I've had no period pain, and my period is lighter. I haven't drastically changed my diet/lifestyle. The only thing I can think of is that I cleared all the masculine wounding and shit to do with men, feeling let down by my dad, ex-boyfriends, etc.
Sarah
The very first noticeable change I experienced was the communication I had with men - in the intimacy department, I have been in receivership, and I feel secure in my relationship. With other men outside and at work, I have an easier time just relaxing and being present. I had a little bit of a sisterhood wound at the beginning of QA, but that significantly improved, too, and I don't feel in competition/threatened by others. The biggest life change is how I view and respect my body. I've started acupuncture for my endo issues, and it's been going well. A lot to learn, but I would say this is the first time where I am prioritizing my health and avoiding the burnout that I'm used to in the past.
Nay
Monica is the most incredible person I have ever met, and I am just soooooo fucking grateful for all her guidance, love and heartfelt support. I have found my voice and feel fucking incredible! I now feel sexy, worth and powerful through Monica’s guidance. I never realised how disconnected from the feminine I was and Monica brought me back to my trust essence. She ROCKS
Erin
The energetic work you do along the way, and tools you learn throughout the programme are absolutely priceless. I’m so grateful for Monica and the way in which she shows up. Life has so much more sparkle since doing QA.
Samantha
I've become more open. Prior to QA, I was always very self-protective. I was open, but only to a degree. Now I feel that I am much more fully myself and have fewer walls up to shield me from "danger." I feel more confident and vulnerable but in a good way!!
Stephanie
Working with Monica feels like coming home to myself. Monica has helped me in so many ways and has considerably changed my life for the better. My confidence is stronger than ever - even my husband has noticed. I feel more like myself than I have since I was a child. She gave me the necessary skills that I needed to become in alignment with myself, which was such an incredible gift she gave to me.
I have done several of Monica's programs, and she does not disappoint. Since finding Monica, my life has consistently improved for the better. She has helped me become aligned with myself, my desires, and life as a whole. You can tell she puts her heart and soul into each of her programs. You will not regret working with Monica!
I never realised that I had the option to choose a different story. I thought because I was always told this, this is what I was going to have for the rest of my life. Literally, after our first session with Monica, my whole life flipped. I was able to finally have the life that I’d only been dreaming of for over 9 years.
Vivian
Since QA, I have met a beautiful masculine man who steps up so I can be in my feminine. I have also had a promotion within my department, a higher salary, and greater development opportunities. Life is good.
Sarah
My fear was that I would be judged by friends and family for not spending my money "wisely." I was afraid that I would never be able to make this money back. I would have told myself that I am the leader of my life and spending money on a supportive program to improve my mental health is one of the greatest investments I can make! No one else gets to decide for me what a "wise" use of my dollar is. I would have told myself that my relationship to money is very emotional. Taking time to put in the work to understand and heal my money story will bring me freedom I have never felt! Money does not leave my bank account through a one way valve. The number of dollars in my bank account do not represent my worth. I would have reminded myself that every dollar I spend is like a vote "yes" to more of whatever I purchased. This course is a large dose of intimate experiences and personal growth/discovery. I am a HELL YES to this!! Worth every penny.
Morgan
Queen Alchemy was awesome, I’m so glad that I have it for life. So many tools to bring out the best version of myself. I love Monica’s vibe, I love her authenticity, and that she does all the things she does because it feels right to her. She is fun, energetic sexy AF, and even puts herself out of her comfort zone for us. Growth comes from doing the things that scare us. xx
Serina
Through sessions with Monica, I was able to embrace my true feminine self and it has completely changed my perspective on how I live my life. It has change my outlook, my relationship with my partner, sex and ultimately loving my body and mind. I now never have to dim my sexy, intelligent, creative or studious light. I no longer feel the shroud of oppression I used to have for who I am.
Sophie
I think your energy and your way to guide and inspire is absolutely unique. You truly have a talent and do your job so well. For me I would have loved to get to know kind of why we are doing different meditations and how this affects the brain/mindset, but I can also see how that makes people get into their head and not surrender, so I guess that’s just me wanting to learn and understand the science behind it more. Also it takes time soooo I get why you don’t do it. To be honest I cannot really come of think of something to improve, it’s so carefully structured and delivered. Keep up the great work!!!
Clara
As a womens health nutritionist, I’m fully aware of the effects emotional stress, trauma & energetic blockages has on our health, however I didn’t know how to fully overcome them in my own life. Having struggled with multiple health issues from the age of 18-25, I always felt like I ‘missed out’ on dating & meeting guys, which became a big insecurity for me. After hearing Monica speak on a podcast, I immediately knew she’d be the one to help me, even though she really triggered me with some of her statements. Queen Alchemy was the PERFECT program (it literally felt like she’d designed this for me personally) as I covered everything I needed to work on. QA has reconnected me to my feminine energy & sexuality – things that had been suppressed for a long time – & I now have so many tools to use for the rest of my life & even pass on to a potential daughter in the future. Thank you Monica , you are AMAZING at your job!!
Vivien
Monica, thank you so much for opening my eyes to the beauty of my feminine energy, reminding me that I am worthy of anything I dream, it is okay to just surrender and let people help me because I am a magnet for all my wants and desires. You have made me a happier, sexier, more confident and relaxed person who just has so much love in her open heart, so much connection to her body and has released all the trauma and anger that was sitting inside. My relationships are amazing I have so much kindness and my self-critical voice has disappeared. I am attracting in abundance and manifesting my desires easily. I have learnt how to feel my emotions and alchemise them through my body, and how to pivot throughout the day to shift out of negative attitudes. My boyfriend has commented on how much more confident and happy I seem and he LOVES how I let him take the lead and let him care for me. Releasing trauma from my childhood has also helped my relationship with my parents and now I receive help from my dad willingly. I have loved all the support from you throughout and from the beautiful women in the Facebook group. Sensual eating, lap dancing, meditating, journalling, sexy dancing – I loved the whole journey. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Rachel
The impact that you had on me is MASSIVE and I couldn’t be more grateful for you and your work. You’re authenticity is contagious and allowed all of us in QA to be just as you are and it was so powerful. I felt so secure during this process. All women should have access to a class like this. The world would be so much more positive. Thank you again Monica! 200% recommend your class. Your talent and energy is beyond anything I can think of.
Audrey
This was the best investment I’ve ever made in myself. I was a little apprehensive when I started, but WOW did I get such fantastic results!!! I feel through QA I’ve jumped through time to a version of myself I have always dreamed of but never thought actually existed. At a first glance, Monica’s programs might seem expensive, but I promise, they are worth every last penny. She has changed my life in ways I could have never imagined and I will forever be so so so grateful to her!
Kate
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TESTIMONIALS
I received SO MUCH value from HER! Time and time again, Monica's programs continue to be worth every penny — crafted with so much integrity, care, and tools to implement and actually MAKE CHANGES in your life.
I joined HER because I wanted to feel in flow, abundant, and not overrun by the day-to-day. I mean… I created this wonderful little corner in the world, so why did I feel exhausted all the time? HER taught me how to use structure and discipline to get more enjoyment out of everything I’ve built and worked so hard for!! I’m SO thankful I made the time to work ON my life and not just IN my life. Thank you, Monica ❤️
- Amanda
It’s been almost a year since I went through the program, and I swear, a day doesn’t go by that I don’t recall some helpful nugget or lesson from HER.
Monica’s methods have stuck with me and inspired me to keep still, slowly pressing forward, even on my most hopeless days when I could barely pull myself out of bed. I AM a different woman today than I was a year ago. The changes might not be as “overnight” as we’re all so used to seeing now (thanks to social media), but that’s because the lessons in HER are actually sustainable and are designed to help you, yes, in the short term, but more importantly, for the long term. They’re grounding and solid and withstand the test of time because they’re based on reality and human nature—which I believe is something we could all use a little more of.
- Rachael (Part 1)
When you buy HER, it’s not just for the you at the end of the program; it’s for the you a year from now. 3 years from now, 5 years from now, etc. I absolutely felt more confident, sexy, powerful, and aligned during and after the program, but when life happens, and that initial post-program high wears off, the lessons are still there.
Monica has a way of speaking to a deep, core part of you that doesn’t fade. It sticks. So joining HER isn’t just about how you’ll feel and where you’ll be right after the program. It’s about how you’ll feel and where you’ll be for years to come.
- Rachael (Part 2)
I feel so empowered since doing HER!! Before, I was usually second-guessing myself and struggled a bit to find my balance between feminine flow and masculine discipline. This course made it all incredibly clear. I was wasting energy trying to figure it out myself. You told us exactly what we needed to do to become HER and I have felt so confident with my new routines and habits that I prioritize!!! Thank you, Monica!
- Emma
I absolutely loved HER! If I had to make a decision about joining again, it would be a no-brainer to join. It's a program jam-packed with so much practical information on how to become HER. Monica outdid herself with this program, and now it's up to me to implement it.
I now have so many great tools to use on a daily basis. I even used one of them to finish the last call, which I had been postponing for weeks. It got me thinking about the small things that created my HER and helped me feel like it's not some far-away dream but something I can bring with small steps into my life now.
I don't need to be disappointed in myself if I don't achieve the HER I have in mind now because I'm changing, and my HER vision changes with me.
- Audrone
This program is like the podcast on steroids. I loved the podcast and thought I was getting so much information and takeaways (which I was), but the information and tips from HER have elevated my life exponentially.
- Kaleigh
Monica's program HER offers a different spin on Monica's work. I have done multiple of Monica's programs, and she never disappoints. HER was a lot more action-focused than previous programs, and I really enjoyed that aspect. Monica does an excellent job at creating unique programs while maintaining consistency in her creativity. HER provided a blueprint for change in multiple areas of life. Thank you, Monica!!
- Abbie
"As per usual, Monica delivers a jam-packed program full of amazing information, tips and tricks. I made it through a really hectic period of my life with all these tips, without getting overwhelmed, losing sleep or skipping meals. And I will keep repeating the calls to pick up new nuggets to use. Thank you so much!"
- Iris
"It is like I found the spring in my step I was looking for. HER made every thing I was thinking about and could nearly touch, concreet and attainable. Now I can and will lean on this program to go far ahead in my life. I am so thankful.
- Floriane
“Monica, I would say that you have changed my life but it goes so much deeper than that. You have transformed my life. You have made me a better woman, a better partner, a better lover, a better friend, a better leader and mentor and I know what we did will also make be a better mom. I am going to try not to cry as I write this, but you have truly given me a life beyond anything I can ever imagined. And I know I had to show up and do the work, but it was your ability to hold space, make me feel safe and to also call me out when I needed it that got me here. And I will truly take everything from our time together for the rest of my life."
- Liv
"Monica is an absolute powerhouse and the best in the biz. I have worked with her for a while now and can honestly attribute so much of my personal and business growth to her and the work she has helped to guide me through. I would highly recommend her to anyone wanting to up level, work through their shit and become a better/happier version of themselves. She truly inspires me and I get so much out of working with her and I know that others will too!"
- Alisha
"You know if you wanna be around Monica. She is like a magnet for women who are ready to say fuck yes to their dream life and business. Getting around her energy alone will invite you to expand with you think is possible for your life and business. The depth of detail, strategy and sexy containers available for you in her programs with all of the training and support is unmatched."
- Kat
"I think people see “magical Monica” but they don’t quite get what it’s like to be around you and be in your world, and to heal with you. And it’s something beyond words can describe, and I invite anyone who desires more for their life to enter your world in the highest container they can. I have done every single program of yours and without a doubt they all hold so much power. I know you were divinely placed on my path and I am so glad I invested and did the damn thing even when I was terrified AF about spending that much money on myself. Thank you thank you thank you.”
- Olivia
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Be a Lover, Not a Mother
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Be A Lover, Not A Mother saved our marriage!!!
We had spent years in marital counseling trying to tease out and fix all the negative aspects of our marriage. I was full of resentment from doing everything, and desperately wanting him to lead. The more I pushed, the more he would shut down.
Close to giving up, I tried BLNM, and the program taught me how to actually communicate with my husband. It’s like we had been speaking different languages, and we finally had a translator.
I went from bitter and burned out, into someone who was getting her needs met and fully appreciating his masculinity. He transformed from being inactive and despondent to planning dates, cooking dinners, bringing home flowers, and saying how much he enjoys the softer me.
We communicate now on an entirely different level. I get the physical love, the mental reassurance of him leading, and some pretty nice gifts along the way *wink*. I guess a girl really can have it all.
- Heather
Doing “Be a Lover, Not a Mother” has changed the way I show up around men. I didn’t realize how often I was slipping into “mother” energy in day-to-day life until this course helped me become aware of it.
One of the biggest things I’ve taken away is how much more self-aware I’ve become. I’ve started noticing the little things I do or say and how they affect the energy between me and the men in my life.
The changes have definitely been noticed—one of my colleagues even called me his muse! I’m really grateful for everything I’ve learned and would absolutely recommend it to any woman who wants to shift how she relates to men.
- Kristin
My favourite thing is that each concept in this course is thoroughly explained in a realistic, 'normal life' kind of way. Monica gives actual examples of how to implement the strategies and she explains them in ways that make sense and can be easily applied. And not just in romantic relationships but also in my relationship with my brothers and dad and all other men in my life.
I have noticed stronger communication between my brothers and myself, they seem to feel more excited and comfortable to share things with me. They have also taken more initiative to "help" me without me having to ask for the help.
I’m now feeling so safe and secure when I'm around them because I have more trust!
- Madeline
BLNM gave me a new set of eyes, both in seeing myself clearer and the men in my life clearer. I started to embody my femininity more and more at the core, and men started to notice me and act differently around me. They started to give me more glances, wanted to be around me more, help and support me in an instant when I was asking for it, and unprovoked too. I became more relaxed and allowed life to unfold without expectations... It felt like magic unfolding (and still feels like it).
Men opened doors for me without me asking, and I received them gracefully. I feel like my feminine essence is reaching men without me having to strive. It's like a magical hand that uplifts them, giving them the strength and the desire to rise for themselves and for us. To show up as greater men.
If you are serious about wanting better relationships with men, then BLNM is a great call! If you feel ready, then I recommend you take the leap and start your journey to greater relationships with yourself and men! You are worth the investment!
- Nikoline
BLNM helped me strengthen my language around talking about the masculine/feminine with my fiancé so we can keep our relationship polarized. A YEAR AND A HALF after I did the program live, I reached out to Monica with a question, and she sent me a 5-minute voice note in Telegram. Monica's passion for her work—and all her clients—is unmatched.
- Sofia
Oh, my lord. My man literally watched me shift my entire countenance from avoidant, cold, and noncommittal to emotional, vulnerable, soft, and loving in our relationship—and it’s given his masculinity so much room to lead us in our relationship.
It’s amazing. BLNM IS GOLD.
The content that Monica teaches isn’t just intuitive, it’s also research-backed, and when you dive into the content with devotion (I’ve probably listened to every module 3-4 times MINIMUM), you will be able to see your long-held patterns of emasculation shift.
- ELLIE
BLNM literally changes your brain chemistry on your perceptions and interactions with men in the BEST way possible. I have never been in a relationship where passion has lasted longer than 6 months; however, after working with Monica, I learnt how to be discerning on the kind of man I wanted to attract into my life and ultimately found my soulmate and we have a relationship that is full of so much spark and polarity and passion and love, and it continues to increase with every passing day (and for context we've been dating for 18 months now)!
I hugely attribute this to the teachings within BLNM. From understanding the fundamental differences between men and women to learning exactly how to communicate with my man to achieve the best outcomes and inspire him to be the best partner he can be.
BLNM is magic for your intimate relationship and for your interactions with men in general.
- RENEE
I refer back to these modules all the time to remind myself of how men’s brains are so different to women’s and how to communicate more effectively with them. It really works!!!
My man has noticed that my voice is softer and calmer, and I have better levels of detail in the information I give (not overwhelming him).
One thing my partner loves about me now is that he feels like he can tell me anything. I hold space for him, and I’m soft with him. He can feel my love.
Even outside of my relationship, my connections are better; my coworkers and my dad feel more protective of me and want to look after me, and I get to see their strengths as men and appreciate them. This program is a game-changer!!!
- TAYLOR
Before BLNM, I did not feel seen, appreciated, heard, and quite frankly pursued. I thought that I was the problem being in my masculine too much, so I wanted this program to level up my intimacy and relationship.
Once I started doing the embodiment, I noticed that men approached me differently than before. They wanted to help me and serve me, even when I was at work and my job was to help and serve them. Then, the more I felt like I was becoming HER, the more I started to feel a distance between me and my (then) partner, and I realized that my man was not for me; he didn’t want me, and I actually didn’t want him.
I realized that he was just this reflection of me, showing that I didn’t want him. That’s when I realized that all this relationship I had was more of a psychosis and a trauma bond, and was actually quite abusive for him and me to stay. Now I know better, and this program helped me out of that relationship.
After BLNM, my relationship with men is so much better. I feel safe, more in my body, and I also take care of my body and my nervous system better. During the program, I started to see myself more and show up for myself more, and BOOM everyone else did too.
- NIKOLINE
Although I'm not currently in the process of attracting a mate simply because I don't want to right now, I know that when I'm open and ready, he'll be there. I know I'll be able to communicate with him so he understands me, and I'll understand him. I know I'll also be able to support him in a way that keeps his masculine strong and actually keeps us both strong in our preferred energies.
If you are on the fence, jump in and do it, a part of you knows you want it and NEED it to come into the life of your dreams. Think about it as an investment into yourself and your relationship(s); the money, energy, and resources will come back, but your time and life will not.
This is a jam-packed crash course that condenses time, space, and experiences that you don’t have to go out “get” because you have it served here from Monica + team on a silver platter. Start your dream life and do it for YOU! Thank you Monica soo SOO MUCH, for this program. It was worth every penny and every dollar I invested into me. It brought back more than words can express!
- NIKOLINE (part 2)
This program changed how I interact with men entirely! My relationships (professional, platonic, familial, and romantic) are grounded in trust and respect. I noticed men in my life consistently protecting and providing for me, and feeling safe to be themselves around me.
I’m deeply grateful for everything I’ve learned about men from Monica, she really breaks down how men are different from women (and what to do) in rtangible, actionable ways. Not just the fluffy BS you see everywhere online. I loved how Monica gave real life examples of how to handle situations. One that still sticks with me years later is how to handle rejection in a playful way versus taking it personally all the time.
- AMANDA
I don’t think my husband and I would be together today if it weren’t for this course. I never realized how I was ruining our relationship and pushing him away from me with my words and actions.
Learning about the polarity between men and women and how to ACTUALLY support my husband has made our relationship better than ever. There is no way we would have gotten through the hardships without me being able to surrender. Not to mention, I am way more relaxed letting him lead and he has more confidence in himself.
Not only has this affected our relationship positively, but it has also affected both of our well being individually with our personal lives and careers. I’ve been able to apply these tools to my platonic relationships with men too. Working in a male dominated field, I have been described as “bossy” in the past. Since this course my husband says I am “chill but also can’t be messed with. That’s powerful”.
Colleagues have noted my calm and confident demeanour working with men (who are frankly quite egotistical), none of which would be the case if it weren’t for this course. It has saved my relationship and my sanity with my career!
- EMMA
I learnt so much about myself – I never thought before about how easily I was emasculating men, but now I can see both HOW and WHY. This programme has made me realise it is safe to be at ease, to let others help me and that I don’t need to be doing everything in life! It’s made me feel less stressed and that has been obvious to people in my life.
- EMMA
When I first started BLNM I was relating to men from a masculine shell. Throughout BLNM I learned how to lean back, tune into my heart and womb, and trust a man to lead and be in my feminine enough to LET him lead. I learned how to nourish my own feminine when I felt “needy” and how to ask for things in a way that was sexy and inviting rather than demanding and harsh. Most of all, I learned how to build trust in my own heart and feminine expression so that men want to lead me and be vulnerable with me. Thank you so much Monica for your knowledge. I’m so grateful I took BLNM and highly recommend it to any women who wants to sink more deeply into her feminine and create connection with all the men in her life.
- Eliza
This was so Wonderful! I loved the weekly format over four weeks and how much Monica gives to her community (the vibes were divine!). I learnt how insidiously societal emasculation can niggle its way into our minds and I feel more confident in nurturing myself and communicating to men and my boyfriend overall.
- Felicity
This was an amazing program that enlightened me to be more embodied in my feminine to help support him in his masculine. Every call there were SO many juicy tidbits that lead to me being able to understand and support my man better. This program is an amazing bridge that I will be drawing on everyday for the rest of my life- much like all of Monica’s other programs. I’ve done Queen Alchemy earlier this year, so if you are concerned about overlapping content, it is a completely different course that stands on its own; while still holding the core roots that are in all of Monica’s programs. I highly recommend taking this program! No matter what stage your relationship is at, everyone can benefit from the content. It has significantly improved my understanding of men, thus, my relationship. Thank you so much Monica!
- Vanessa
This program is a must for every single woman to support her inner feminine and all the masculine around her. Becoming aware and building that polarity is truly life changing. It doesn’t happen over night but I hear Monicas voice and wisdom in moments and realize Im breaking patterns. Soon it will be my norm. I am beyond grateful for this offering because there is absolutely nothing like it.
- Shaina
Monica is a vibe and a half and I have loved loved LOVED learning from her over the duration of this course! Before signing up to BLNM, a lot of the topics covered in this course triggered me but I am so grateful for Monica being an advocate for men in this course as I have a newfound deep appreciation for the masculine and for all the men in my life. I have a better understanding of the polarity of the masculine and feminine roles in a relationship and also an insight into some of the major ways men's brains function soooo differently to women's. This course is simply chicken nuggets on chicken nuggets and each call I found myself breaking through limiting belief after limiting belief surrounding men. I can't wait to build and continue to implement these learnings in my actions and behaviors around the current men in my life (friends and family) but also so I can support, please, and inspire my future lover! Thank you so so much Monica!
- RENEE
I thought I had already healed a lot of my inner beliefs and inner work about men, but Monica had made me recognize that I still had a few subconscious fears and beliefs that were damaging to my relationships with men (My partner and all the males in my life). Thank you so much Monica - I never thought I could learn how to be in receivership and fall into my feminine energy. Had hesitation when enrolling in the program but it is definitely worth it!
- KRISTINE
I loved the tangible things to do and all of the small examples and nuggets that Monica shares in BLNM. I felt understood and really became aware of how I am showing up in my relationships, and I knew exactly what to do to shift things. My man even noticed that I stopped nagging him about things I wanted him to do or not to do, and this led to many more moments of intimacy and connection.
Thank you, Monica, for giving me the tools and knowledge to have the relationship with men that I want to have. Thank you for guiding me to see all the beautiful things about them and to really understand men as well (finally!). I can now really be respectful and warm and passionate and feminine, whilst also being able to communicate "me“ in a way that they understand. Thank you for enabling this beautiful transformation that I got to experience within my relationships!
- Rena
I love how tangible BLNM is. I have read The Queen's Code and have done a bit of work around this topic before, but BLNM made it very actionable and clear to create change. It landed so deep, how much I played a part in the dynamic in the relationship, and what men need. This program has played a big part in completely shifting my relationship with my partner and the dynamic between us. I now know what I did to emasculate him, what inspires him to lead, and what he needs to feel safe to lead. He even noticed that I’m more approachable, safer to be around, and more magnetic since doing BLNM.
- Torunn
Be a Lover, Not a Mother honestly changed everything for me. I didn’t even realize how much I was trying to control everything in my relationships with men—thinking I had to do it all, fix it all, be everything. This program helped me drop that and actually feel safe letting go.
I started softening, leaning into my feminine, and allowing my man to really step into his masculine. And he did. I didn’t have to force it—he naturally rose up when I stopped micromanaging everything.
It even shifted how I show up with my dad and my brothers. I stopped treating them like they needed mothering, and now our relationships feel so much more respectful, balanced, and calm.
Monica just gets it. This program helped me remember that I don’t have to carry it all—and I’m so much happier because of that.
- GIgi
I'm blown away by how my eyes have opened up to the world of men. Seeing things from their perspective has been huge for me. It has provided me with a lot of compassion for men and has made my relationships stronger (even outside of romantic - platonic, work relationships, etc.). The men in my life have noticed I am much warmer after doing this program - even my dad and I get along better now. I loved BLNM!
- Miah
Realizing the things Monica teaches in this program deep in my bones made me completely change my understanding of men and have more empathy towards them.
When I practice all the things in BLNM, I notice that my partner is more receptive to my needs, I am allowing him to be my Prince Charming, whilst also adding some sassy role play into the mix to keep things interesting. ;)
I can express my needs effectively thanks to what Monica teaches, and this has created many win-win situations for BOTH of us to get what we need and desire.
- Erica
This is one of the best, most needed programs in understanding men and women to elevate your life in so many ways.
- Basia
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