Unexplained Infertility: What Your Body Is Really Telling You & How To Heal It | Monica Yates Health

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Unexplained Infertility: What Your Body Is Really Telling You & How To Heal It

Unexplained Infertility: What Your Body Is Really Telling You & How To Heal It

I'm tired of women being made to feel like their body has just failed them, and they can’t have a baby when they aren’t 50 and menopausal, when actually their body is COMMUNICATING with them.


Fertility is a $50 billion+ global industry, and is forecasted to reach roughly $85-93 billion by 2034/2035. I don't think I need to explain what that does to how the "solutions" get sold to you.


When you go and see a doctor for your struggles, they're not going to tell you that maybe it's because you're in your masculine all day long, constantly gripping onto control, can't relax, rest feels lazy, living in your head, not your body, completely disconnected from your womb and femininity.

A body which has been in survival mode, gripping onto control, trying to operate like a man, unable to properly rest or receive for YEARS, might not yet feel safe enough to do the most receptive thing a body can do. In order for you to fall pregnant, you need to be able to feel safe RECEIVING.


Because that's what conception is. Pure receiving. The egg is literally in receivership of the sperm. Your uterus has to feel safe to hold a baby.


I’ve worked with countless women over the past 9+ years to help them fall pregnant by healing the root with trauma healing and healing energetic blocks. Almost every woman was already doing all the "right" physical things (taking supplements, tracking their cycle, etc), didn’t yet feel truly safe to conceive, to hold a baby, and to step into motherhood, for all sorts of reasons.


These are the energetic blocks at the root of infertility:

  • Fears around motherhood

  • Trauma that hasn’t been cleared from your own mother

  • Fear of birth

  • Lack of self-trust and confidence

  • Disconnection and numbness in the body

  • Suppression of pain that you may or may not be aware of

  • Unhealed sexual trauma

  • Not feeling inherently good enough

  • Abandonment fears

  • A deep sense of unsafety in the body

  • Fear of not being able to keep doing your job/business

But once we cleared the energetic blocks, boom... my clients fell pregnant.

 

For some of the women, it was a month later, for others, only a WEEK later. (It takes 90 days for your follicle to come around into ovulation, so sometimes we need to wait that full cycle for the new energy for this conception. But more than 50% of the time, my clients are pregnant sooner!)


To be clear—this runs ALONGSIDE you doing the physical things like supplements, eating well, getting enough sleep, reducing toxic load and stressors.

 

(Psst... For a deeper dive into preparing yourself for pregnancy, both physically and energetically, check out this juicy podcast episode. ↓)

 

 

If you’re currently trying to conceive and have “tried everything,” it’s time for you to work with me.

 

Soft & Ambitious will help you finally heal the energetic blocks at the root of infertility (and also help you make more money without sacrificing yourself and finally be present in the beautiful life you've worked so hard to build).

If you are...

🦪 The one that everyone calls when sh*t hits the fan. You're the "strong one after all," and whilst you're so good at holding everyone else, it often feels like no one knows how to hold you when things aren't perfect and you're not being strong.

🦪 Someone where rest feels like something you have to earn, and the only way you've ever earned it is by burning out first. When you sit down to watch TV or read a book, it feels "unproductive," or the book has to be something that helps you with work.

🦪 A woman with a jaw that always feels tight and clenched, a gut that often flares up with bloating or chronic symptoms, your sleep never feels restorative, or your body feels like it's carrying extra weight that no diet or exercise regimen seems to fix.

🦪 Reactive and dysregulated, and you struggle to hold your children's big emotions. Instead of being able to be the present mother you want to be, you snap or shut down, and then feel even worse about it.

Then Soft & Ambitious is for you. It also includes the exclusive option to add a Conception Mini 1:1 Package to get extra 1:1 support from me on getting to the root of what's causing your infertility.