If you're finding yourself attracting feminine/weak/soft (whatever you want to call it) men, it's less about them than more about you. If YOU are in your masculine energy, then you are repelling masculine men and inviting feminine men.
A masculine man won't be with a masculine woman because the clash will cause him to be repelled.
FYI, being feminine DOES NOT equal pretty dresses and heels..
Just because you might 'look' feminine doesn't mean you are. If you're attracting soft bois – men who don't lead themselves (let alone you), and the "I don't mind what we do" guys... then it's time you do something about it.
Just like a woman wants a man that would take a bullet for her, a man wants a woman that is a warm space after a long day. (let's face it, the world right now shits on masculine men... but in MY world, we're doing things differently, so hop on board because life is about to get REALLY steamy for you and him)
The feminine is NOT a look. It's an energy.
Now, when you're fully tapped into that energy, he'll either step up or be repelled because he's not attracted to a feminine woman who wants to be led (because he's the one taking the feminine pole in the relationship).
In order to feel safe to be in your feminine, you need to feel safe to be seen — by yourself and those around you.
You need to heal your trauma around men so that you can trust the masculine to soften into your feminine.
And, you need to heal your relationship with womanhood and the feminine.
Once you value what it means to be a woman, accept your feminine nature, and stop trying to get external validation, you’ll feel safe to attract a masculine man.
If you want to be TRULY embodied in your feminine so that you can attract a masculine man, or be the muse for your man to rise... make sure you’ve watched my FREE masterclass:
The Blueprint to Feminine Embodiment.
Also, make sure you've checked out my longest-running program, Queen Alchemy.
Queen Alchemy is a 7-week intimate program specifically made for women who are ready to free themselves of their past and step into their most turned-on, feminine selves. Because who doesn't want to radiate and feel safe being seen?
It’s not just a self-help program with no sustainable substance, it’s LIVE with me for 7 weeks over 30 hours of LIVE calls plus a telegram group for further questions (all answered by moi!)
The little details that make the big difference:
→ 7 x 120 min LIVE group Zoom calls where we will be doing all the healing, trauma release, embodiment practices, and Q+A time
→ 14 additional trauma calls which will revolve around specific trauma topics
→ A Telegram group (it's an app you download for free) where you will be able to ask me questions throughout the 7 weeks. This gives you an additional 10-15 hours of teaching and healing with me → All my brain-changing reprogramming tracks to quantum leap your growth
→ Energy healing, trauma work, embodiment practices
→ Nervous system regulation and expansion
→ Teachings and lessons for you to dive into immediately (over 14 hours), and you have access to updates in the future
→ Homework between the weekly group calls for integration
→ Lifetime access to the 7 weekly healing calls, reprogramming tracks, online portal (with updates), telegram group & printouts
→ Option to add a 1:1 session for those of you who need additional support & bespoke healing with me very limited spaces available
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