Cuffing Season Is Here... But Are You *Ready* to Receive Real Love?

Cuffing season is here, ladies! It's that time of the year when you're wanting to couple up and find that romantic partner that you can ride winter out with (physically and just metaphorically).

As we hit the cold months for many of us (Australia, I know you're heating up over there!!) and coming to the holiday season, we're wanting to indulge in these snuggle-heavy moments of warmth, connection, and someone to eat a bowl of pesto pasta with whilst watching Netflix. (side note: who else is so excited for Emily In Paris Season 5?!)

For some of us, it might be that we are really craving that deep soul connection AND the comfort of filling the relationship void. But for others, it's more about the convenience and comfort because the summer fun has worn off and everyone's a bit more low-key lonely and wanting the human heater.

So whether you're wanting to find your Mr. Ski Lift (BTW, here's my own real life Mr. Ski Lift love story, for those of you who don't know how my husband Hal and I met), or just a fun winter snuggle buddy, I know that you're wanting to be courted, chased, and not splitting the bill (EW!)…

So listen up. If you want a high-quality man to court you, chase you, and pay 100% of the bill without even flinching, you need to be able to receive that. 

To not chase. To not text him after the date, saying how great it was, but instead let him do the follow-up. That, though, can be hard when your nervous system is dysregulated and your trauma's still running the show. Cuffing season can turn into trauma-bonding season real fast.

You think it's a real connection, but really, you're just repeating what feels familiar. Ghosting, emotionally unavailable men, and the f*cking bill splitting. You keep giving excuses when really, you want a man who flies you to Atlanta and books the Ritz for your first date together—yes, I'm speaking from experience here.

So yeah, cuffing season is real. But whether it's soul-nourishing or soul-draining… that's gonna depend on the state of your nervous system, your relationship standards, and whether you're actually ready to receive a healthy, masculine man… or just trying to avoid feeling what comes up when you're eating dinner alone.

You probably think there are no good men left, dating these days suck, and there's no hope. But that's not actually true.

You're just stuck being hyper-vigilant, over-giving, and people-pleasing when dating. When a man ghosts you, pulls away, doesn't text back for the day, you start going into an anxious spiral, even though you know that you're okay and that you don't want to be with a man who ghosts you anyway. You worry about being "too much." (been there)

So, you change yourself in order to just get the man because you're so desperately wanting the company. Be honest with yourself.

The reality is, whilst you know that you deserve better than this, and that the right man wouldn't treat you like this... you're still in this cycle.

One of my clients Grace, recently messaged me, "Omg I finally get what you mean when you just stop being attracted to these sorts of guys. For the first time I have the "ick" for the kind of behaviour I used to give excuses for! I literally can just walk away and am not emotionally triggered or trying to "fix it"!!!"

Which is exactly why I created the most tangible and actionable dating masterclass so that you can be in your feminine, operating as a confident high-value woman, and attract a man who leads, courts you, and pays for the bill.

This masterclass is not a "love and light" "just be in your feminine" fluffy class. It's the exact things that I did to EMBODY my worth as a woman in my dating life when I met my now-husband, and not get swept up by the dopamine of a new hot man.