5 Ways to Fall BACK in Love with Your Man

Whether you're 2 years into your relationship or 20, what I'm about to share applies to you.

Throughout different seasons of our lives, we can find ourselves feeling distant and second-guessing our love. It could be because we're just busy and aren't prioritizing each other, or it could be past wounds coming up that we end up projecting onto the one we love.

When we fall in love with our man at the start of the relationship, that doesn't mean our love is just inevitable from there on out. Your love should never just be considered a "given." We need to work on our love.

We need to re-commit and reorient ourselves to one another again and again.

We have to choose our love every single day, through all the ups and downs, the season changes, and the inevitable hard moments.

As the two of you become new versions of yourselves throughout your life, you have to find a new level of love, interest, polarity, and desire. This requires action and intentionality. Being committed to your love means that you intentionally take the time, space, and energy to actually come back together again and again.

Whether you're the one in a 20-year marriage and have gone through moments of someone losing a parent, having children, changing jobs, moving house, etc., all of those pivotal moments require you to re-fall in love with a new version of him. And if you've been with your man for even just 2 years, there are still moments where you have to CHOOSE your love.

My husband and I have been together since January 2022, and even though it's only been 4 years, it feels like we've been together a lifetime because of the things we've been through together.

Every moment of hardship, every move, every new job, lost friend, broken heart, and experience of loss has brought us closer because we've chosen to love the new version of each other on the other side of these experiences.

We have had to redefine our love after each of these experiences because our love has changed. We've also each grown and evolved as individuals, and we CHOOSE to continue to find our way back to each other as the foundation of our relationship.

You don't have to settle for distance from your man, a lack of polarity, things being "good" when you know they once were "great," and whatever other tension points are coming up for you, or for both of you. It doesn't have to be this way. Your love story (aka your current relationship) CAN become the greatest love story of all time, if you choose it.

So, here are 5 ways to fall back in love with your man:

• Prioritize him. Make him feel that.
• Stop comparing him to other men, or even to an old version of himself.
• Understand his love language. Act on it.
• Appreciate him and let him KNOW how much you do.
• Put energy and effort into your relationship rather than assuming it'll just "get better."

And with all of that being said, if you're ready to feel turned on and weak at the knees by him again, then Be a Lover, Not a Mother is your next step.

I created Be a Lover, Not a Mother to guide you and teach you how to encourage your current or future man to rise. Your man is about to plan ALL of the dates, be in control, and take the weight off your shoulders.

Whether you are single, dating, in a long-term relationship, or just wanting to learn how to receive from men day-to-day, this program is for you.