You Want a Masculine Man, But Can You Actually Let Him Lead?

Ladies, it’s all well and good to WANT a man to lead you, but can you actually LET him? Look, I’m not in the mood to sugarcoat, so if you’re a money-making woman, you need to keep reading.

Many highly successful women like you find themselves being the man in their own relationships because they've been conditioned to believe that asking for help makes them weak, that being soft means being taken advantage of, and that if they don't do it all themselves, it won't get done right. But here’s the thing...  

A man cannot lead you if you do not give him the space to do so. 

You cannot be happy in your life unless you CHOOSE to live differently, and you will never feel the polarity and passion you're craving to have with your man until you make the space for him to rise and lead you.

So, in order for him to lead you, you need to:

• Feel safe to receive from him 

• Heal your relationship with money

• Have boundaries (Boundaries = safety and respect) 

• Feel safe letting go of control

These are the three specific things you need to embody for your man to have the energetic space to be in his masculine and lead you, especially as a high-achieving, money-making woman.

01. Receivership

You might deeply want him to lead you, but when it actually comes to it, do you feel safe receiving it?

So many of us have programming around not trusting men, feeling weak when we are not in a state of hyper-independence, and feeling like we have to be Miss Independent to feel worthy.

If you don’t receive his leadership, then he cannot lead you. And yes, this means releasing control.

02. Not Making Money Masculine

Masculine energy thrives on purpose, direction, and action. When you take over or undermine his masculine role by holding money over him, it creates an imbalance where he may feel directionless or unmotivated to contribute emotionally or practically.

03. Boundaries and Self-Respect

Boundaries with yourself and with others create a deep sense of internal safety that allows you to feel safe in letting your man lead you because you know how to actually put your foot down and when you need to say “no.”

By knowing that you can speak your truth, it allows you to surrender and let go to his lead because you trust yourself to speak up when you need to speak your truth.

When a man isn't leading you, it's not because you're "intimidating" or "too successful." It's really not very often even about what you're doing or not doing with your life, but instead, it's coming from an operating system that new information alone cannot reach.

You know this. You can't just decide to be different and then your body acts that way. You don't just decide to make a lot of money and then no longer feel fear about "what will people think of me?" It works the same way in love.

If your man isn't leading you, but you know he's capable of it, then you need to come to my free masterclass, From Roommates to Ravished: Why He Stopped Leading and How to Make It Safe for Him to Lead Again (featuring my hubby!).

This masterclass will show you what it feels like when you heal your dynamic and start operating like his lover, not his mother.

This is NOT another masterclass of information that you add to your never-ending free guides and notes. This is an opportunity to see my husband and me in action, with him leading and me receiving.

My husband doesn't speak therapy talk (🤮), he doesn't speak from his heart chakra, he is not passive, and he didn't become masculine by me telling him what to do. He became it by me being his muse (his words).